[Read: Getting over insecurity in a relationship] Does your boyfriend’s BFF hate you? She may be a nice person, but she would always want his attention, and even more so, whenever you’re around. At times, her call may interrupt both of you in the middle of a steamy love making hour, and she may actually realize what you guys are up to. Having a man who isn’t really your man as your arm candy is fashionable and safe. Guy best friends may help you understand the world of men better, and may even help you devise the perfect way to snag a smoldering hunk for yourself.No guy likes to be in the friend zone with an attractive girl unless he’s swinging the other way.I have a fair number of female friends, and sometimes dating is hard as a result.Look for an open door to discuss the dating relationship and what you see that may be harmful.You’ve burned and ranted to yourself each time you come in contact with a certain pretty gal friend of his. ’ and one second later, you’re forced to slide aside as this good girl pal of his joins the both of you, and plonks herself next to your man. Putting up with your boyfriend’s girl best friend I wouldn’t be surprised if I saw sparks erupt off your hair strands. And why does she have to keep kissing his cheeks and hug him all the time, especially when you’re around! But you obviously can’t stop hating this girl who torments your thoughts and your secure relationship in such a subtle and yet blatant manner. Now, if you’re really pondering over this question, that’s just way too silly. And your man feels awkward and blushes when she playfully strokes his cheeks or squeezes his butt cheeks. She’s known him way longer than you’ve known him and she behaves like she knows more secrets about him, and she always pops those annoying questions like “Hey, did he tell you about the thing he did in fifth grade?
They think that if I’m hanging out with a female friend, I’m probably having sex with them.Many times the answers lie in the gray areas, and in the deeper questions. If you’re afraid this new romance will have a major effect on the relationship you have with your friend, you may feel confused, disappointed and frustrated. Figuring out where the dislike is coming from is a good place to start and it can help you know how to pray for the situation and respond to it.We talked with some friends who have experienced this and shared their insights with us. Is the boyfriend or girlfriend a bad influence on your friend? Do you think your friend’s date is a bad influence?But she remembers it, and you look like a fool while she recounts to you about his secret escapade during his school years. But what she knows for a fact is that he is her best friend. She loves the way your man drools and laughs when she’s around.You don’t really care whether he peed in his pants when he was seven years old, that doesn’t bother you one bit. And another fact she knows well is that you get jealous when you see her with your boyfriend. And she loves watching your red face each time she kisses his cheek.If someone has a different set of values, or lifestyle choices, you may think your friend is doing harm to mind, body, or spirit.